Parashat Toldot
Rabbi’s Drosh
Every year I am inspired by the messages which we find in Parashat Toldot about how powerful prayer is and how powerful blessings can be.
The Torah tells us that Rebecca cannot have children and that Isaac prays for his wife 'opposite her'. The Midrash explains that each of them davened (prayed) in different corners of the tent for a child, and ultimately their prayers were answered.
What made their prayers so powerful?
Rashi explains that Rebecca was praying for Isaac and Isaac was praying for Rebecca. Isaac was praying to Hashem that the child was not for him, but for his wife, who yearned for a child. Rebecca was pleading to Hashem for a child for Isaac, who was growing old but still had not had the child that would lead to the promise of him becoming a great nation being fulfilled.
The Talmud explains the one who prays for another person first, has his prayers answered first.
Praying for another person also connects us to that person in a powerful way. Many times I have been asked to pray for someone who is sick and I always feel something spiritual when I have the opportunity to meet that person who I have prayed for.
Another beautiful message in the example of Isaac and Rebecca’s prayers can be found when considering that neither of them davened with a minyan. During the these summer months we are blessed to be celebrating Bat Mitzvah after Bat Mitzvah. The girls who lead the Friday night service daven without the minyan, with beautiful and powerful prayers, just like their foremother Rebecca did before them.
Mazel Tov to Issi and the Silverman and Brenner families as they celebrate this exciting simcha with our community.
Shabbat Shalom and Chodesh Tov,
Rabbi Friedler